I've been living with my boyfriend for a year.  We get along great except that I get jealous at times.  He recently opened a "my space" account and now ex girlfriends and old girls from high school chat with him online. Some of these girls are very flirty with him, even though they know he has a girlfriend.  One girl wrote that  "he is so handsome, she wished he wasn't taken" She gave him her phone number and he has it in his phone now.  The whole thing makes me sick!  When I get upset about it he says he loves me, he would never cheat on me and I'm over reacting, and pushing him away with all my jealousy...I have been cheated on in past relationships and I can't help that I get nervous easily.  I think it is horrible that he chats with girls that have been with him in the past or wish they could be with him now. What should I do? Am I over reacting?

-- I can understand why you are jealous about the MySpace comments, but try to understand how this feels to him.  He is so happy with you, that he is thoroughly enjoying throwing it in the face of all his ex-girlfriends.  Can you see how happy that makes him? Remember, you are LIVING with him, they only get to chat on-line with you. YOU have it made.

For those of you who are upset about the John Stamos MySpace site:

I give advice on relationships and personal matters.  I am NOT a moderator for MySpace.  You need to contact them directly for any issues that you have.

-- I know someone, who after 11 years of marriage, his wife is leaving him because he spends ALL of his time on the computer.  He has no friends that he gets together with in person, and no social activities.  He doesn't get any exercise.  He is missing out on LIFE!

You do not want to be like this.  Get off of Myspace, find some friends to get together with IN PERSON!  Join a bowling league, or a gym.  Go for a walk every day.

-- I agree.  I worked with a woman who is in her 40's, and still can't get over the fact that Donnie Osmond didn't marry her.  She used to be a groupie who followed him to all his concerts.  She should have gotten therapy to get over this when she was a teenager, and she REALLY needs therapy for still obsessing about it now!

You need to go to http://www.johnstamos.net/ to complain directly.

Okay. We have been dealing with some online Discrimination/sexism involving an actor's webmaster where on the first profile on myspace he made he for the actor only had less that 130 before people reported it. He would have no men fans for this celebrity.  Only women added. The only men added were people he knew like Casper Van Diem, the webmaster himself, and Bob Saget. The profile was public, but then I was booted for no reason. Then he decided to make it private, etc and he faltered the last name where you had to guess the last name was indeed under a fake name which is against the TOS. Then next we were booted off the actors forum that the webmaster runs for no reason. We didn't do any harm to anyone or done anything wrong. Come to find out, the webmaster will no add anyone to the actors profile if they have an unofficial fansite added to their profile and wont add anyone who's a friend of ours. What should we do? Should we get the celeb involved in this? Many people feel we should. We don't know what's else we could do. any advice would be great!

http://johnstamos.net is a forum for the well-known actor John Stamos.  It is run by webmaster and a good friend of Johns, Ken Hada. To make a long story short Ken Hada created a profile for John Stamos on MySpace that for awhile was public but only certain people (mainly gorgeous women and the forum moderators) would be added. My friend tried getting him to add her and was denied five times. A good friend and I was was added for a few months and then deleted when we started noticing that others had issues with not being added to John Stamos' friends list. At first I didn't think much of it, but when things got a little nasty and I was first banned from the forum and then deleted from the friends list we started fighting back. On the forum my friend PMd (sent a private message) to a moderator that I got along with just in general asking her if she would email me outside of the forum about something. She didn't bring me up or anything. She was then deleted from the forum but was not banned.

Then we noticed that the JS profile on MySpace went private and you had to guess the last name or email which was falsified since Stamos didn't work.

Moving on...at least a month has passed now and we don't totally understand why a guy in his 40's is fighting with us over something so stupid. All we want is for John Stamos to be acknowledge by his fans. Well that, and for Ken Hada to loosen up the rules he has imposed on the forum. There are no terms of use like you'd find in most forums, just rules that Ken changes when he feels the need.

My friend emailed him asking why she and I were deleted and if we could rationally talk things out, but have been ignored. Since we feel that what is going on on MySpace could be hurting John Stamos' image we wrote a letter and sent it to his publicist, Lewis Kay. Since then we have written another letter that will be sent out soon to the publicist as well as Stamos' agent. Kim has posted about this and has been told possibly to consider going to court over all of this but I'm not so convinced that we have anything that we'd even remotely have a chance at winning.

Anyways We hope this makes sense. I guess what my friend and I are doing right now is trying to figure out what we should do now. I say we lay low for the next week or so after the letter goes out and see what happens. We aren't really sure what do about this. Any advice would be great.

A friend and I are dealing with discrimination. Not in our everyday lives, but online. It started about a month ago now on MySpace. Kim is a huge fan of John Stamos and had added the supposed real profile of his ran by webmaster Ken Hada. Something happened then that Ken will only add pretty/sexy women or the moderators of his John Stamos forum. He never approved my add request and since I'm not a big fan of Stamos it wasn't a big deal.

Now though, Ken has changed how the John Stamos forum (http://johnstamos.net) is run. You must be registered to view any boards, and you have to be approved of by him. Makes sense and really not a problem...and yet because I am a friend of Kim's I was not only deleted from the forum even though I never really posted anything and had just sent a private message (PM) to a moderator on Kim's behalf. A few days later I tried to sign up again, thinking this time I wanted to get to know people, especially Ken. But I was never approved. Personally I could care less because it doesn't mean much to me. However, this guy who is in his 40's is messing with two girls in their mid 20's. The only thing we want done is for Ken to be a nicer person and to represent John Stamos the way he should be represented: as a nice, fair, and great guy who is appreciative of his fans. Is that too much to ask? I think not. Anyways, don't tell me to move on or let it go...because that's not an option at this point.

Getting the forum taken down is not what we want done. All we want is for Ken to stop being so discriminatory and rude. Overall the forum is a great place to meet other people, but only as long as you play by his rules which constantly change.

The only other thing I have to add to all of is whether or not I should go right to the source (Ken Hada) and see if I can get him to talk to me about everything that is going on. I've been told that once you are banned by him that he won't talk to you, but I figure it's worth a shot. I mean our problem has to do with him and only him really.

Any advice would help and what your thoughts on this would help too. Thanks.